DBT for Binge Eating: How Dialectical Behavior Therapy Can Help
- Brandi Stalzer, LIMHP, LPCC, LMHC, BC-TMH

- Jan 17
- 5 min read
Updated: Feb 2
Binge eating disorder (BED) is the most common eating disorder in the United States, characterized by recurring episodes of eating large amounts of food in a short period, accompanied by a feeling of loss of control. Individuals with BED may experience guilt, shame, and distress after binge episodes, but often struggle to stop the cycle. Traditional treatments for eating disorders include therapy, medication, and lifestyle changes, but one therapy that has gained increasing attention for its effectiveness in treating BED is Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT).
Originally developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan to treat individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), DBT has proven to be effective in addressing a wide range of emotional difficulties, including those associated with eating disorders like binge eating. In this blog post, we’ll explore how DBT works and why it’s particularly well-suited to helping individuals manage binge eating.

What is DBT?
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a type of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) that focuses on balancing acceptance and change. The term "dialectical" refers to the idea that two opposing forces—acceptance and change—can coexist and are both necessary for personal growth. In DBT, individuals learn to accept themselves as they are, while also working toward making positive changes in their thoughts, behaviors, and emotional responses.
DBT was initially designed to help individuals with emotionally dysregulated behaviors, such as self-harm, suicidal thoughts, and interpersonal difficulties. However, over time, its application has expanded to include the treatment of other conditions, including eating disorders like binge eating.
The therapy focuses on four key skill modules:
Mindfulness: Developing awareness and focus in the present moment.
Distress Tolerance: Learning to tolerate difficult emotions without resorting to unhealthy coping mechanisms.
Emotion Regulation: Managing intense emotions and learning healthier ways to respond.
Interpersonal Effectiveness: Strengthening relationships and communication skills.
These modules work together to help individuals create a balanced life and manage difficult emotions without turning to binge eating or other maladaptive behaviors.
How DBT Helps with Binge Eating
Binge eating is often a coping mechanism for managing emotional distress. For many individuals, binge eating serves as a way to escape or numb difficult feelings such as sadness, anxiety, shame, or anger. The emotional dysregulation that accompanies binge eating can create a cycle of bingeing and emotional distress, which reinforces the behavior.
DBT can be a highly effective treatment for binge eating because it addresses the underlying emotional and behavioral factors that fuel the disorder. Let’s take a closer look at how DBT specifically targets binge eating behaviors.
1. Mindfulness: Becoming Aware of Triggers
Mindfulness is one of the core skills in DBT, and it’s an essential tool for managing binge eating. In DBT, mindfulness teaches individuals to focus on the present moment without judgment. By practicing mindfulness, individuals can become more aware of the triggers that lead to binge eating, whether it’s stress, boredom, negative body image, or emotional distress.
Mindfulness helps individuals slow down and observe their thoughts and feelings before they act on them. For example, someone might notice that they’re feeling anxious or sad and identify that these emotions trigger a binge. Instead of immediately acting on the urge to binge, mindfulness allows them to pause, reflect, and make a more conscious decision about how to respond.
2. Distress Tolerance: Managing Difficult Emotions
One of the key reasons people engage in binge eating is to cope with overwhelming or uncomfortable emotions. Distress tolerance skills in DBT are designed to help individuals tolerate intense emotions without turning to unhealthy behaviors like binge eating.
In DBT, individuals learn to sit with difficult emotions without resorting to avoidance strategies. For example, they might practice deep breathing, use self-soothing techniques, or engage in other activities that provide temporary relief without causing harm. By building tolerance to emotional discomfort, individuals can stop using food as a way to cope with feelings of distress.
3. Emotion Regulation: Understanding and Modifying Emotional Responses
Many individuals with binge eating disorder struggle with emotional dysregulation, where their emotions can feel overwhelming or unmanageable. Emotion regulation skills in DBT teach individuals how to better understand and manage their emotions, so they don’t turn to food to regulate their feelings.
In DBT, clients learn how to identify and label emotions, understand their causes, and practice strategies for reducing emotional intensity. For example, if someone feels overwhelmed or angry, they can use emotion regulation skills to experience those feelings without resorting to a binge. Over time, this helps individuals build healthier emotional responses and develop coping mechanisms that don’t involve food.
4. Interpersonal Effectiveness: Strengthening Relationships
Many individuals with binge eating disorder struggle with interpersonal difficulties, such as feeling isolated or misunderstood. These difficulties can exacerbate emotional distress, leading to an increased risk of binge eating. In DBT, interpersonal effectiveness skills help individuals improve their communication and relationships with others.
Through DBT, individuals learn how to assert their needs, set boundaries, and navigate difficult social situations more effectively. This can help reduce feelings of loneliness and isolation, which are common emotional triggers for binge eating. Building healthier relationships also provides individuals with a greater sense of support, reducing the urge to use food as a way to manage emotional pain.
Why DBT is Effective for Binge Eating
DBT’s focus on emotional regulation and distress tolerance makes it uniquely suited to treating binge eating disorder. Here’s why DBT is particularly effective:
Addresses Emotional Triggers: Since binge eating is often a response to emotional distress, DBT directly addresses the underlying emotional issues that contribute to the behavior. By learning how to manage emotions more effectively, individuals can break the cycle of binge eating.
Focuses on Mindfulness: Mindfulness helps individuals become more aware of their emotions and triggers, giving them the opportunity to pause and choose healthier coping mechanisms before engaging in a binge.
Teaches Healthy Coping Skills: DBT equips individuals with practical tools to manage intense emotions, reduce distress, and cope with difficult situations without relying on binge eating or other unhealthy behaviors.
Promotes Long-Term Change: Unlike other approaches that may focus solely on reducing binge episodes, DBT promotes lasting change by teaching individuals to develop a more balanced, mindful, and emotionally regulated way of living.
What to Expect in DBT for Binge Eating
DBT for binge eating typically involves individual therapy, group skills training, and phone coaching. In individual therapy, the therapist will work with the client to identify specific triggers and patterns related to binge eating and develop personalized strategies to address them. Group therapy provides an opportunity to learn and practice the skills in a supportive environment with others who are also working on emotional regulation and behavioral change. Phone coaching allows clients to reach out for support during moments of crisis or when they’re struggling with urges to binge.
Throughout DBT, there is a strong emphasis on self-compassion and non-judgment. Many individuals with binge eating disorder experience feelings of shame or guilt about their behavior, and DBT works to reduce this by encouraging clients to treat themselves with kindness and understanding.
Conclusion
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers a powerful, evidence-based approach to treating binge eating disorder by addressing the emotional and behavioral factors that contribute to the disorder. Through mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness skills, individuals can learn to manage their emotions, reduce distress, and break the cycle of binge eating.
If you or someone you know is struggling with binge eating, DBT may be a valuable treatment option. By working with a trained therapist, individuals can develop the tools and strategies needed to create lasting change and lead a healthier, more fulfilling life. Remember, it’s possible to recover from binge eating and build a life that is not defined by food.




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